Ask Polly · 2026-09-03 · 1 MIN READ
“Should I Dump This Guy?”
You know exactly what you want right now, and it has nothing to do with who you’re dating.
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“Should I Dump This Guy?”
You know exactly what you want right now, and it has nothing to do with who you’re dating.
Heather Havrilesky
Sep 03, 2026
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The Lovers (1929), Yves Tanguy
Dear Polly,
Should I dump this guy I’ve been dating for three months?
I just turned 30 a few months ago. Transparently, my twenties kind of sucked. I was in a career path I didn’t like. I was living in a West Coast city I loved, but left during the pandemic, and despite many opportunities, never returned to. Honestly, I just …
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