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Ask Polly · 2026-09-09 · 1 MIN READ

‘This Break-Up Left Me With So Many Regrets!’

Don’t hide from your own future inside someone else’s crisis.

Heather Havrilesky
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‘This Break-Up Left Me With So Many Regrets!’

Don’t hide from your own future inside someone else’s crisis.

Heather Havrilesky

Sep 09, 2026

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Dear Polly,

I went through an incredibly complex break up six months ago. We were together for two and a half years. It was both of our first relationships (22F & 23F). The early days were really special but things ended badly. I deeply regret how the break-up happened and the fallout since.

We parted in Februa…

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